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Foul Language
Sinaid- Posts : 13
Join date : 2011-04-11
Location : United States
- Post n°1
Foul Language
Hello Friends. I have a request to ask. In general chat can we please stop using the words cunt, nigger, faggot,and rape? I'm all for free speech and people speaking their minds, but these four words are really bad and over the edge. These words are full of hate, violence, and prejudice. They should not be thrown around lightly. Thanks for listening. Cealeigh
phillies2008- Posts : 120
Join date : 2011-02-23
Location : Yoonyted Stayts uf Amerehkuh
- Post n°2
Re: Foul Language
Nigger and fag are hate words. Just don't use 'em
Other than that, I'm pretty sure there's nothing in the rules about cunt and rape...
Other than that, I'm pretty sure there's nothing in the rules about cunt and rape...
Pete- Posts : 3194
Join date : 2010-12-22
Age : 30
Location : Santiago, Chile
- Post n°3
Re: Foul Language
I'll give you faggot and nigger; but rape and cunt are totally ok.
Ciphon- Posts : 1637
Join date : 2011-03-06
Age : 27
Location : 156,68,1261
- Post n°4
Re: Foul Language
im against racist/ hateful words such as the 2 pete and phillies are against, but even though i wont say any of the others myself, i dont have anything against someone else who says them
Jarvisd- In-Game Staff
- Posts : 2226
Join date : 2010-12-27
Location : California
- Post n°5
Re: Foul Language
If you can't handle the racist chat just ignore the chat like I do
SlaveofRH- In-Game Staff
- Posts : 339
Join date : 2011-04-05
Age : 34
Location : New England
- Post n°6
Re: Foul Language
If they're racist, fine. That's not cool. But the others are just words and I see nothing wrong with using them. 'Rape' especially is highly used and maybe overused in video games so I personally think you should get used to it. Cunt is a word for female genitalia, it may be 'vulgar' to some but I personally don't see anything vulgar about it, not anymore than saying dick, or calling someone such.
I wouldn't take it so seriously..
I wouldn't take it so seriously..
GoDjMike- Posts : 1005
Join date : 2011-01-11
Age : 30
Location : Kansas City, Missouri, US
- Post n°7
Re: Foul Language
Yea, it's the internet and it would be impossible to regulate foul language without banning everyone for these words. But I would agree that excessive use of racial slurs is over the top.
Rulyon- Donator
- Posts : 2001
Join date : 2011-01-29
Age : 40
Location : Fort Worth, Texas, USA
- Post n°8
Re: Foul Language
I guess I'm in the minority that finds Rape to be as unacceptable as the racist words. Though it may understandably be because none of y'all have had a close loved one beaten and raped before. I hope none of you ever do experience it.
aapl2- Posts : 700
Join date : 2011-01-10
Age : 30
Location : united states
- Post n°9
Re: Foul Language
SlaveofRH wrote:If they're racist, fine. That's not cool. But the others are just words and I see nothing wrong with using them. 'Rape' especially is highly used and maybe overused in video games so I personally think you should get used to it. Cunt is a word for female genitalia, it may be 'vulgar' to some but I personally don't see anything vulgar about it, not anymore than saying dick, or calling someone such.
I wouldn't take it so seriously..
I see I dont have to type it out myself
SlaveofRH- In-Game Staff
- Posts : 339
Join date : 2011-04-05
Age : 34
Location : New England
- Post n°10
Re: Foul Language
Uh way to assume shit. I've been raped before, at 14, as well as molested by a respected principle. So stfu. The word rape means shit unless you give it that power, which I don't, at all. The word means nothing compared to the experience, it's just a damn word, and I don't have any feeling towards it whatsoever.Rulyon wrote:I guess I'm in the minority that finds Rape to be as unacceptable as the racist words. Though it may understandably be because none of y'all have had a close loved one beaten and raped before. I hope none of you ever do experience it.
Kn16h7- Banned
- Posts : 600
Join date : 2011-04-23
Age : 21
- Post n°11
Re: Foul Language
SlaveofRH wrote:Uh way to assume shit. I've been raped before, at 14, as well as molested by a respected principle. So stfu. The word rape means shit unless you give it that power, which I don't, at all. The word means nothing compared to the experience, it's just a damn word, and I don't have any feeling towards it whatsoever.Rulyon wrote:I guess I'm in the minority that finds Rape to be as unacceptable as the racist words. Though it may understandably be because none of y'all have had a close loved one beaten and raped before. I hope none of you ever do experience it.
And this is why i dont assume something when its something like that... .-. you never know who your going to hurt or completely piss off, and my personality pisses ppl off enough... >.>
ontopic: the only one i see a problem with is the "N word" :/ you dont even need to be gay to be a "Fag", its taken on the same way "Rape" has, its just become a word with little meaning unless used intentionally with meaning or if the other person takes it like that.
cfortay33- Posts : 59
Join date : 2011-01-09
Age : 28
Location : Washington DC
- Post n°12
Re: Foul Language
Ya I mean fag does really offend some people; although, most of the time when people use it they don't actually mean gay and that gay is bad, but is more just used as like "you suck" soooo...
Gornemant- Donator
- Posts : 190
Join date : 2011-01-13
- Post n°13
Re: Foul Language
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1. Fag 12330 up, 1662 down
1. An extremely annoying, inconsiderate person most commonly associated with Harley riders.
2. A person who owns or frequently rides a Harley.
2. fag 9784 up, 4212 down
1.a ciggarette (British)
2.a slang word for a homosexual or also used in wrong terms when person is disliked
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Get with the lingo man :B
1. Fag 12330 up, 1662 down
1. An extremely annoying, inconsiderate person most commonly associated with Harley riders.
2. A person who owns or frequently rides a Harley.
2. fag 9784 up, 4212 down
1.a ciggarette (British)
2.a slang word for a homosexual or also used in wrong terms when person is disliked
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Get with the lingo man :B
GaMerG77- Donator
- Posts : 2016
Join date : 2010-12-27
Age : 25
Location : California
- Post n°14
Re: Foul Language
Love SouthPark haha!Gornemant wrote:
1. An extremely annoying, inconsiderate person most commonly associated with Harley riders.
2. A person who owns or frequently rides a Harley.
Lizardman- Posts : 2846
Join date : 2011-03-05
Age : 33
Location : Happy Place
- Post n°15
Re: Foul Language
Caleigh, I banned the dude that got this train started anyway on an unrelated matter. (Funkygirl87)
Chill out, brah. :.:
Chill out, brah. :.:
Sinaid- Posts : 13
Join date : 2011-04-11
Location : United States
- Post n°16
Re: Foul Language
Good morning Friends. When I woke up this morning, I was surprised to see how many responses my post received. Even though we don't all agree on some things, I'm glad we're able to talk about it respectfully. That's pretty cool.
Very quickly, I feel like I should tell you a bit about me, so you can kind of understand my point of view. I'm not a male; I'm a mom. Surprise! I'm female! Also, I came to this game because I was watching my 16 year old son play Minecraft on this server and it looked like a lot of fun... which it totally is! So now you get two surprises... I'm female and I'm an old lady. (In case you're wondering, I'll be 40 this summer. )
I'm glad that we more or less agree that nigger and faggot are unacceptable. I grew up in a time in which cunt didn't refer to just the female parts. It was a hate term used against women. It was just as bad as calling someone a nigger and worse than calling a woman a whore. I guess that's why I cringe every time I see it. Rape was also one of those words that carried a lot of violence and hate. We didn't use it in terms of video games, sports, etc. Back then, it was purely a violent sexual act against others, mainly female, but against anyone.
I'm an old lady from a different generation, so I see things a bit differently. I hope you don't mind. Cool people are cool people, no matter what age. Just like assholes are assholes, not matter what age. I've met a lot of really 'cool people' of all ages while playing this game, which makes this game even more fun for me.
As for ignoring the chat, sometimes I do. Usually when I kept really involved in a project I'm working on. (Just ask the couple of people who snuck up on me and accidentally got pvp'ed!) If I were to totally ignore the chat, I'd miss out on a lot funny things that are happening. You guys make me smile and make this game fun. I'm glad for that!
And, Liz, you did an awesome job banning that guy! Thanks for doing that. I'm not interested in having cool players banned if they say these words once in awhile. I would just like for people to be sensitive when using them and to not use them lightly.
I guess I've talked too much. Thanks for listening again. See you in the game. Cealeigh
Very quickly, I feel like I should tell you a bit about me, so you can kind of understand my point of view. I'm not a male; I'm a mom. Surprise! I'm female! Also, I came to this game because I was watching my 16 year old son play Minecraft on this server and it looked like a lot of fun... which it totally is! So now you get two surprises... I'm female and I'm an old lady. (In case you're wondering, I'll be 40 this summer. )
I'm glad that we more or less agree that nigger and faggot are unacceptable. I grew up in a time in which cunt didn't refer to just the female parts. It was a hate term used against women. It was just as bad as calling someone a nigger and worse than calling a woman a whore. I guess that's why I cringe every time I see it. Rape was also one of those words that carried a lot of violence and hate. We didn't use it in terms of video games, sports, etc. Back then, it was purely a violent sexual act against others, mainly female, but against anyone.
I'm an old lady from a different generation, so I see things a bit differently. I hope you don't mind. Cool people are cool people, no matter what age. Just like assholes are assholes, not matter what age. I've met a lot of really 'cool people' of all ages while playing this game, which makes this game even more fun for me.
As for ignoring the chat, sometimes I do. Usually when I kept really involved in a project I'm working on. (Just ask the couple of people who snuck up on me and accidentally got pvp'ed!) If I were to totally ignore the chat, I'd miss out on a lot funny things that are happening. You guys make me smile and make this game fun. I'm glad for that!
And, Liz, you did an awesome job banning that guy! Thanks for doing that. I'm not interested in having cool players banned if they say these words once in awhile. I would just like for people to be sensitive when using them and to not use them lightly.
I guess I've talked too much. Thanks for listening again. See you in the game. Cealeigh
Gornemant- Donator
- Posts : 190
Join date : 2011-01-13
- Post n°17
Re: Foul Language
That explains it a little. ^^
Though in these days, children tend to learn much worse even in the first school years. I think a lot of these words have lost a lot of their power over the years, to the point where it's pretty much only used in a comical fashion, ie "raep!!!11 D: " (sp intended). I can pretty much guess why it's this way, with kids being pretty much the internet generation where everything is available a few clicks away, those insults aren't as much a taboo as they used to.
Of course intended racism is unacceptable and it's a good thing we got rid of a certain person.
Have fun! =3
Though in these days, children tend to learn much worse even in the first school years. I think a lot of these words have lost a lot of their power over the years, to the point where it's pretty much only used in a comical fashion, ie "raep!!!11 D: " (sp intended). I can pretty much guess why it's this way, with kids being pretty much the internet generation where everything is available a few clicks away, those insults aren't as much a taboo as they used to.
Of course intended racism is unacceptable and it's a good thing we got rid of a certain person.
Have fun! =3
Yarwood- In-Game Staff
- Posts : 2379
Join date : 2010-12-30
- Post n°18
Re: Foul Language
I skipped most of this topic as I'm viewing from my phone.
If you find anybody using hate-words/racism, take a screenshot and I'll deal with it (ban unless it was a first time and minor)
Swearing on the other hand (f'ck, sh't etc) is permitted if isn't excessive.
If you find anybody using hate-words/racism, take a screenshot and I'll deal with it (ban unless it was a first time and minor)
Swearing on the other hand (f'ck, sh't etc) is permitted if isn't excessive.
FillerB- So long and thanks for all the fish!
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Join date : 2011-01-30
Age : 36
Location : Netherlands
- Post n°19
Re: Foul Language
It's also pretty much a case of different cultures.
Take for example "bollocks" or "shag". Just funny words for an American but for an Englishman they are significantly more lewd. As is the dutch word for "cunt" (kut). We generally use it in much the same way as an American uses "shit". Good example being "Kut! Ik had dit rapport gister in moeten leveren." (Shit! I should have handed this report in yesterday.)
edit: And yeah as Yarwood said. We deal with profanity on the server on a case-to-case basis. No problem with spouting a few profanities if you just been PKd but it shouldn't be excessive. Case in point being nagajaga earlier this week.
Take for example "bollocks" or "shag". Just funny words for an American but for an Englishman they are significantly more lewd. As is the dutch word for "cunt" (kut). We generally use it in much the same way as an American uses "shit". Good example being "Kut! Ik had dit rapport gister in moeten leveren." (Shit! I should have handed this report in yesterday.)
edit: And yeah as Yarwood said. We deal with profanity on the server on a case-to-case basis. No problem with spouting a few profanities if you just been PKd but it shouldn't be excessive. Case in point being nagajaga earlier this week.
Yarwood- In-Game Staff
- Posts : 2379
Join date : 2010-12-30
- Post n°20
Re: Foul Language
There is one dutch word I'll straight off ban for - I'm sure you know which I mean
Also "bollocks and shag" I have no problem with as it isn't offensive.
Also "bollocks and shag" I have no problem with as it isn't offensive.
FillerB- So long and thanks for all the fish!
- Posts : 4066
Join date : 2011-01-30
Age : 36
Location : Netherlands
- Post n°21
Re: Foul Language
It was the best example I could think of and no I have no idea which one you mean.
edit: Ah that one. Yeah I'll give you that.
edit: Ah that one. Yeah I'll give you that.
Krellyn- Posts : 813
Join date : 2011-04-07
Age : 31
- Post n°22
Re: Foul Language
Yeah... Where I live, at least with my crowd, it's normal to call each other nigguh or nig.
<--- Latino kid who hangs out with Quebecois gangster wannabes and black dudes. But there is a distinct difference in the way someone uses certain words, ya know? I don't think anyone mentioned this yet.
Like, I'll call Liz a fag, but only because some joke has gone on. Or, I'll call jello nig, because he's a bud?
I don't know. Just how I see it.
<--- Latino kid who hangs out with Quebecois gangster wannabes and black dudes. But there is a distinct difference in the way someone uses certain words, ya know? I don't think anyone mentioned this yet.
Like, I'll call Liz a fag, but only because some joke has gone on. Or, I'll call jello nig, because he's a bud?
I don't know. Just how I see it.
PureCraft- Posts : 3781
Join date : 2010-12-12
Age : 30
Location : Germany
- Post n°23
Re: Foul Language
I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe
Yarwood- In-Game Staff
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Join date : 2010-12-30
- Post n°24
Re: Foul Language
I meant if they were used in an offensive manor towards another player
Lizardman- Posts : 2846
Join date : 2011-03-05
Age : 33
Location : Happy Place
- Post n°25
Re: Foul Language
<- obvious fag is obvious.
Derp. :.:
Derp. :.:
FillerB- So long and thanks for all the fish!
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Age : 36
Location : Netherlands
- Post n°26
Re: Foul Language
PureCraft wrote:I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe
kekeke. Just out of curiosity. New Kids (of those 4 antisocial assholes from Maaskantje) is pretty big in Germany too right? Seen the movie yet?
Kewaii- Posts : 130
Join date : 2011-02-15
Age : 29
Location : Sweden
- Post n°27
Re: Foul Language
Someone has been hurt, i see, i see, no need to be sad, we are here to support you<3
PureCraft- Posts : 3781
Join date : 2010-12-12
Age : 30
Location : Germany
- Post n°28
Re: Foul Language
Yeah.. I watched the movie but its pretty much rubish.. used to watch it sometimes on Tv.. but meh, I dont like that A-Hole styleFillerB wrote:PureCraft wrote:I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe
kekeke. Just out of curiosity. New Kids (of those 4 antisocial assholes from Maaskantje) is pretty big in Germany too right? Seen the movie yet?
Lizardman- Posts : 2846
Join date : 2011-03-05
Age : 33
Location : Happy Place
- Post n°29
Re: Foul Language
Kewaii wrote:Someone has been hurt, i see, i see, no need to be sad, we are here to support you<3
I was trolling myself. :.:
Only time I've ever been butthurt was when Arbr went on a banning spree and I was included.
Well, there WAS that time when I made 5kgil on world Orcworm on the first day and Orcy took it back cuz he thought I was cheating. He gave it back after I explained how I did it though. :3
Yarwood- In-Game Staff
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Join date : 2010-12-30
- Post n°30
Re: Foul Language
It was still an econony-breaking exploit which you should'very reported first >.>
I'm fairly sure Kewaii's post was towards OP too, but I could be wrong
I'm fairly sure Kewaii's post was towards OP too, but I could be wrong
FillerB- So long and thanks for all the fish!
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Join date : 2011-01-30
Age : 36
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- Post n°31
Re: Foul Language
Hmm I liked it. It's like a modern (but waaaay over-the-top) Flodder. Then again I bet the voices/accent has a lot to do with it.PureCraft wrote:Yeah.. I watched the movie but its pretty much rubish.. used to watch it sometimes on Tv.. but meh, I dont like that A-Hole styleFillerB wrote:PureCraft wrote:I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe
kekeke. Just out of curiosity. New Kids (of those 4 antisocial assholes from Maaskantje) is pretty big in Germany too right? Seen the movie yet?
Kewaii- Posts : 130
Join date : 2011-02-15
Age : 29
Location : Sweden
- Post n°32
Re: Foul Language
Yarwood, what is nick up to btw? , need someone who dones't sucl major balls to play LoL whith, tired of random faggots.''
Heard he started to play rift aswell or something?
Heard he started to play rift aswell or something?
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PureCraft- Posts : 3781
Join date : 2010-12-12
Age : 30
Location : Germany
- Post n°33
Re: Foul Language
jjjüüüüünggeee!!! vrktr mongo! haha, you dont want to know how often I hear ppl shouting this at school...FillerB wrote:Hmm I liked it. It's like a modern (but waaaay over-the-top) Flodder. Then again I bet the voices/accent has a lot to do with it.PureCraft wrote:Yeah.. I watched the movie but its pretty much rubish.. used to watch it sometimes on Tv.. but meh, I dont like that A-Hole styleFillerB wrote:PureCraft wrote:I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe
kekeke. Just out of curiosity. New Kids (of those 4 antisocial assholes from Maaskantje) is pretty big in Germany too right? Seen the movie yet?
Orcworm- Owner
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Join date : 2010-10-31
Age : 30
Location : England
- Post n°34
Re: Foul Language
Okay, I can't believe this hasn't been asked yet...
...
Who's your son who also plays on this server? ^^
...
Who's your son who also plays on this server? ^^
PureCraft- Posts : 3781
Join date : 2010-12-12
Age : 30
Location : Germany
- Post n°35
Re: Foul Language
You want pics Orc don't you? P=
FillerB- So long and thanks for all the fish!
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- Post n°36
Re: Foul Language
I don't really see how it's relevant...
Orcworm- Owner
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- Post n°37
Re: Foul Language
PureCraft wrote:You want pics Orc don't you? P=
Pictures if her son? No, I just want to know who he is ;p.
And B, if even *I* can't bend my rules then there isn't much hope for anyone else.
Sinaid- Posts : 13
Join date : 2011-04-11
Location : United States
- Post n°38
Re: Foul Language
LOL, you guys are awesome which makes this game so much fun to play. I really do like how we can talk about this and sometimes disagree without being mean or ugly with each other. Like I said, you guys are awesome.
My son? He's a quiet guy in the game and pretty much keeps to himself. He also doesn't play nearly as much as I do. I'm a mom at home on extended medical leave from work, so I have more time to play Minecraft than he does.
My son? He's a quiet guy in the game and pretty much keeps to himself. He also doesn't play nearly as much as I do. I'm a mom at home on extended medical leave from work, so I have more time to play Minecraft than he does.
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FillerB- So long and thanks for all the fish!
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- Post n°39
Re: Foul Language
Bluh bluh. It's kinda weird knowing who's mom also plays on the server. I see the jokes coming. "Hey Player X! Guess who I PvPed last night!? YOUR MOM WHAHAHAHAHAHAHA". "X: Stop hitting me bit that stick already Player Y. Y: That's not what your mom said OLOLOLOLOL"
edit: And yeah I know what you mean. The original Brabants accent really does do wonders after hearing the German version. Rana, thats a bad dub.
edit: And yeah I know what you mean. The original Brabants accent really does do wonders after hearing the German version. Rana, thats a bad dub.
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Sinaid- Posts : 13
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Location : United States
- Post n°40
Re: Foul Language
BTW, even though my game name doesn't match my forum name, may I have some green letters for Sinaid?
Albuca- In-Game Staff
- Posts : 1205
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- Post n°41
Re: Foul Language
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Sinaid- Posts : 13
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- Post n°42
Re: Foul Language
LOL Albuca. Who's wrong?
PureCraft- Posts : 3781
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Age : 30
Location : Germany
- Post n°43
Re: Foul Language
haha, a mom begging for promotion? Oh well.. I could manage something...
Sinaid- Posts : 13
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- Post n°44
Re: Foul Language
LOL,begging for a promotion? Nah. I'm already a member. I just like the green letters.
Albuca- In-Game Staff
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- Post n°45
Re: Foul Language
Sinaid wrote:LOL Albuca. Who's wrong?
At this point does it really matter?
I mean at this point...
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FillerB- So long and thanks for all the fish!
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- Post n°46
Re: Foul Language
Yeah pretty much. So offensive jokes time?
SlaveofRH- In-Game Staff
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Age : 34
Location : New England
- Post n°47
Re: Foul Language
Yarwood wrote:There is one dutch word I'll straight off ban for - I'm sure you know which I mean
Also "bollocks and shag" I have no problem with as it isn't offensive.
You have noooo idea how bad I wanna know what that word is. o__o
Lizardman- Posts : 2846
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Location : Happy Place
- Post n°48
Re: Foul Language
SlaveofRH wrote:Yarwood wrote:There is one dutch word I'll straight off ban for - I'm sure you know which I mean
Also "bollocks and shag" I have no problem with as it isn't offensive.
You have noooo idea how bad I wanna know what that word is. o__o
+1
FillerB- So long and thanks for all the fish!
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- Post n°49
Re: Foul Language
Let's say that it can be accurately translated as "blatant homosexual male who I hope dies a gruesome death due to cancer". Yes, we have a word for that.
And you know what else.... it is rather common.
And you know what else.... it is rather common.
Rulyon- Donator
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- Post n°50
Re: Foul Language
Albuca wrote:
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XKCD! Albuca, you just went from "cool" to "wicked awesome unbelievably cool X 1000". I love that comic.
Also,
@Slave, I did not intend to offend you. I am sorry to have bothered you with what I said, but I'm glad to see you have risen above your experience and don't let it rule you like many victims of rape do. I certainly do not intend to imply your experience is inconsequential or to be dismissed as "nothing", but allow me to clarify my intended message.
It is MUCH easier, at least for myself and I'm fairly certain for many if not most others, to forgive that which was done to myself than it is to forgive someone for what they did to someone I care about.
When I was a junior in highschool I got a phone call telling me one of my close friends had been beaten raped by her stepfather. When I first saw her in the hospital she was comatose. She had four broken ribs, a broken nose, and a dislocated shoulder. Both eyes were swollen shut and she had bruises all over her body. She had been raped so viciously that her vaginal bleeding didn't stop for three days. She was in a coma for five weeks, and the first thing she did when she woke up was start screaming hysterically, begging him to stop and leave her alone. Once the nurse was able to calm her down, she clung to her and cried herself to sleep. I felt immense grief for her experiencing that, furious her step father for doing this, furious at God for it happening, and completely helps to do anything to comfort her.
Whenever someone says "rape" or some variation of it this memory comes back and haunts me again. I feel those emotions again. This is NOT what I want to think of or experience at any time, much less when I'm trying to enjoy some time on the server. Anyone who uses it gets a polite request to stop and a stern warning that repercussions will come if they don't. Further use of that word in presence and I WILL issue them a temporary ban.
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