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    Post by Sinaid 2011-05-05, 11:48

    Hello Friends. I have a request to ask. In general chat can we please stop using the words cunt, nigger, faggot,and rape? I'm all for free speech and people speaking their minds, but these four words are really bad and over the edge. These words are full of hate, violence, and prejudice. They should not be thrown around lightly. Thanks for listening. Cealeigh flower
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    Post by phillies2008 2011-05-05, 11:59

    Nigger and fag are hate words. Just don't use 'em Neutral
    Other than that, I'm pretty sure there's nothing in the rules about cunt and rape...
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    Post by Pete 2011-05-05, 11:59

    I'll give you faggot and nigger; but rape and cunt are totally ok.
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    Post by Ciphon 2011-05-05, 12:24

    im against racist/ hateful words such as the 2 pete and phillies are against, but even though i wont say any of the others myself, i dont have anything against someone else who says them
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    Post by Jarvisd 2011-05-05, 13:02

    If you can't handle the racist chat just ignore the chat like I do
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    Post by SlaveofRH 2011-05-05, 13:17

    If they're racist, fine. That's not cool. But the others are just words and I see nothing wrong with using them. 'Rape' especially is highly used and maybe overused in video games so I personally think you should get used to it. Cunt is a word for female genitalia, it may be 'vulgar' to some but I personally don't see anything vulgar about it, not anymore than saying dick, or calling someone such.

    I wouldn't take it so seriously..
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    Post by GoDjMike 2011-05-05, 13:19

    Yea, it's the internet and it would be impossible to regulate foul language without banning everyone for these words. But I would agree that excessive use of racial slurs is over the top.
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    Post by Rulyon 2011-05-05, 14:14

    I guess I'm in the minority that finds Rape to be as unacceptable as the racist words. Though it may understandably be because none of y'all have had a close loved one beaten and raped before. I hope none of you ever do experience it.
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    Post by aapl2 2011-05-05, 14:20

    SlaveofRH wrote:If they're racist, fine. That's not cool. But the others are just words and I see nothing wrong with using them. 'Rape' especially is highly used and maybe overused in video games so I personally think you should get used to it. Cunt is a word for female genitalia, it may be 'vulgar' to some but I personally don't see anything vulgar about it, not anymore than saying dick, or calling someone such.

    I wouldn't take it so seriously..

    I see I dont have to type it out myself
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    Post by SlaveofRH 2011-05-05, 14:43

    Rulyon wrote:I guess I'm in the minority that finds Rape to be as unacceptable as the racist words. Though it may understandably be because none of y'all have had a close loved one beaten and raped before. I hope none of you ever do experience it.
    Uh way to assume shit. I've been raped before, at 14, as well as molested by a respected principle. So stfu. The word rape means shit unless you give it that power, which I don't, at all. The word means nothing compared to the experience, it's just a damn word, and I don't have any feeling towards it whatsoever.
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    Post by Kn16h7 2011-05-05, 14:57

    SlaveofRH wrote:
    Rulyon wrote:I guess I'm in the minority that finds Rape to be as unacceptable as the racist words. Though it may understandably be because none of y'all have had a close loved one beaten and raped before. I hope none of you ever do experience it.
    Uh way to assume shit. I've been raped before, at 14, as well as molested by a respected principle. So stfu. The word rape means shit unless you give it that power, which I don't, at all. The word means nothing compared to the experience, it's just a damn word, and I don't have any feeling towards it whatsoever.

    And this is why i dont assume something when its something like that... .-. you never know who your going to hurt or completely piss off, and my personality pisses ppl off enough... >.>

    ontopic: the only one i see a problem with is the "N word" :/ you dont even need to be gay to be a "Fag", its taken on the same way "Rape" has, its just become a word with little meaning unless used intentionally with meaning or if the other person takes it like that.
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    Post by cfortay33 2011-05-05, 16:30

    Ya I mean fag does really offend some people; although, most of the time when people use it they don't actually mean gay and that gay is bad, but is more just used as like "you suck" soooo...
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    Post by Gornemant 2011-05-05, 17:30

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    1. Fag 12330 up, 1662 down
    1. An extremely annoying, inconsiderate person most commonly associated with Harley riders.
    2. A person who owns or frequently rides a Harley.

    2. fag 9784 up, 4212 down
    1.a ciggarette (British)
    2.a slang word for a homosexual or also used in wrong terms when person is disliked

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    Get with the lingo man :B
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    Post by GaMerG77 2011-05-05, 17:32

    Gornemant wrote:
    1. An extremely annoying, inconsiderate person most commonly associated with Harley riders.
    2. A person who owns or frequently rides a Harley.
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    Post by Lizardman 2011-05-05, 17:33

    Caleigh, I banned the dude that got this train started anyway on an unrelated matter. (Funkygirl87)

    Chill out, brah. :.:
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    Post by Sinaid 2011-05-05, 23:02

    Good morning Friends. When I woke up this morning, I was surprised to see how many responses my post received. Even though we don't all agree on some things, I'm glad we're able to talk about it respectfully. That's pretty cool.

    Very quickly, I feel like I should tell you a bit about me, so you can kind of understand my point of view. I'm not a male; I'm a mom. Surprise! I'm female! Also, I came to this game because I was watching my 16 year old son play Minecraft on this server and it looked like a lot of fun... which it totally is! So now you get two surprises... I'm female and I'm an old lady. (In case you're wondering, I'll be 40 this summer. affraid )

    I'm glad that we more or less agree that nigger and faggot are unacceptable. I grew up in a time in which cunt didn't refer to just the female parts. It was a hate term used against women. It was just as bad as calling someone a nigger and worse than calling a woman a whore. I guess that's why I cringe every time I see it. Rape was also one of those words that carried a lot of violence and hate. We didn't use it in terms of video games, sports, etc. Back then, it was purely a violent sexual act against others, mainly female, but against anyone.

    I'm an old lady from a different generation, so I see things a bit differently. I hope you don't mind. Cool people are cool people, no matter what age. Just like assholes are assholes, not matter what age. I've met a lot of really 'cool people' of all ages while playing this game, which makes this game even more fun for me.

    As for ignoring the chat, sometimes I do. Usually when I kept really involved in a project I'm working on. (Just ask the couple of people who snuck up on me and accidentally got pvp'ed!) If I were to totally ignore the chat, I'd miss out on a lot funny things that are happening. You guys make me smile and make this game fun. I'm glad for that!

    And, Liz, you did an awesome job banning that guy! Thanks for doing that. I'm not interested in having cool players banned if they say these words once in awhile. I would just like for people to be sensitive when using them and to not use them lightly.

    I guess I've talked too much. Thanks for listening again. See you in the game. Cealeigh flower
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    Post by Gornemant 2011-05-06, 00:20

    That explains it a little. ^^
    Though in these days, children tend to learn much worse even in the first school years. I think a lot of these words have lost a lot of their power over the years, to the point where it's pretty much only used in a comical fashion, ie "raep!!!11 D: " (sp intended). I can pretty much guess why it's this way, with kids being pretty much the internet generation where everything is available a few clicks away, those insults aren't as much a taboo as they used to.
    Of course intended racism is unacceptable and it's a good thing we got rid of a certain person.

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    Post by Yarwood 2011-05-06, 00:25

    I skipped most of this topic as I'm viewing from my phone.

    If you find anybody using hate-words/racism, take a screenshot and I'll deal with it (ban unless it was a first time and minor)

    Swearing on the other hand (f'ck, sh't etc) is permitted if isn't excessive.
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    Post by FillerB 2011-05-06, 00:32

    It's also pretty much a case of different cultures.

    Take for example "bollocks" or "shag". Just funny words for an American but for an Englishman they are significantly more lewd. As is the dutch word for "cunt" (kut). We generally use it in much the same way as an American uses "shit". Good example being "Kut! Ik had dit rapport gister in moeten leveren." (Shit! I should have handed this report in yesterday.)

    edit: And yeah as Yarwood said. We deal with profanity on the server on a case-to-case basis. No problem with spouting a few profanities if you just been PKd but it shouldn't be excessive. Case in point being nagajaga earlier this week.
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    Post by Yarwood 2011-05-06, 00:36

    There is one dutch word I'll straight off ban for - I'm sure you know which I mean

    Also "bollocks and shag" I have no problem with as it isn't offensive.
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    Post by FillerB 2011-05-06, 00:37

    It was the best example I could think of and no I have no idea which one you mean.


    edit: Ah that one. Yeah I'll give you that.
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    Post by Krellyn 2011-05-06, 00:49

    Yeah... Where I live, at least with my crowd, it's normal to call each other nigguh or nig.

    <--- Latino kid who hangs out with Quebecois gangster wannabes and black dudes. But there is a distinct difference in the way someone uses certain words, ya know? I don't think anyone mentioned this yet.

    Like, I'll call Liz a fag, but only because some joke has gone on. Or, I'll call jello nig, because he's a bud?

    I don't know. Just how I see it.
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    Post by PureCraft 2011-05-06, 00:51

    I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe
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    Post by Yarwood 2011-05-06, 00:52

    I meant if they were used in an offensive manor towards another player Razz
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    Post by Lizardman 2011-05-06, 00:53

    <- obvious fag is obvious.

    Derp. :.:
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    Post by FillerB 2011-05-06, 00:58

    PureCraft wrote:I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe

    kekeke. Just out of curiosity. New Kids (of those 4 antisocial assholes from Maaskantje) is pretty big in Germany too right? Seen the movie yet?
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    Post by Kewaii 2011-05-06, 01:00

    Someone has been hurt, i see, i see, no need to be sad, we are here to support you<3
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    Post by PureCraft 2011-05-06, 01:04

    FillerB wrote:
    PureCraft wrote:I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe

    kekeke. Just out of curiosity. New Kids (of those 4 antisocial assholes from Maaskantje) is pretty big in Germany too right? Seen the movie yet?
    Yeah.. I watched the movie but its pretty much rubish.. used to watch it sometimes on Tv.. but meh, I dont like that A-Hole style Razz
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    Post by Lizardman 2011-05-06, 01:04

    Kewaii wrote:Someone has been hurt, i see, i see, no need to be sad, we are here to support you<3

    I was trolling myself. :.:

    Only time I've ever been butthurt was when Arbr went on a banning spree and I was included.

    Well, there WAS that time when I made 5kgil on world Orcworm on the first day and Orcy took it back cuz he thought I was cheating. He gave it back after I explained how I did it though. :3
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    Post by Yarwood 2011-05-06, 01:09

    It was still an econony-breaking exploit which you should'very reported first >.>

    I'm fairly sure Kewaii's post was towards OP too, but I could be wrong Razz
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    Post by FillerB 2011-05-06, 01:09

    PureCraft wrote:
    FillerB wrote:
    PureCraft wrote:I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe

    kekeke. Just out of curiosity. New Kids (of those 4 antisocial assholes from Maaskantje) is pretty big in Germany too right? Seen the movie yet?
    Yeah.. I watched the movie but its pretty much rubish.. used to watch it sometimes on Tv.. but meh, I dont like that A-Hole style Razz
    Hmm I liked it. It's like a modern (but waaaay over-the-top) Flodder. Then again I bet the voices/accent has a lot to do with it.
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    Post by Kewaii 2011-05-06, 01:16

    Yarwood, what is nick up to btw? Sad, need someone who dones't sucl major balls to play LoL whith, tired of random faggots.''


    Heard he started to play rift aswell or something?


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    Post by PureCraft 2011-05-06, 01:25

    FillerB wrote:
    PureCraft wrote:
    FillerB wrote:
    PureCraft wrote:I could teach you some nice german words too.. hehehe

    kekeke. Just out of curiosity. New Kids (of those 4 antisocial assholes from Maaskantje) is pretty big in Germany too right? Seen the movie yet?
    Yeah.. I watched the movie but its pretty much rubish.. used to watch it sometimes on Tv.. but meh, I dont like that A-Hole style Razz
    Hmm I liked it. It's like a modern (but waaaay over-the-top) Flodder. Then again I bet the voices/accent has a lot to do with it.
    jjjüüüüünggeee!!! vrktr mongo! haha, you dont want to know how often I hear ppl shouting this at school...
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    Post by Orcworm 2011-05-06, 01:27

    Okay, I can't believe this hasn't been asked yet...


    ...


    Who's your son who also plays on this server? ^^
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    Post by PureCraft 2011-05-06, 01:29

    You want pics Orc don't you? P=
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    Post by FillerB 2011-05-06, 01:31

    I don't really see how it's relevant...
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    Post by Orcworm 2011-05-06, 01:35

    PureCraft wrote:You want pics Orc don't you? P=

    Pictures if her son? No, I just want to know who he is ;p.

    And B, if even *I* can't bend my rules then there isn't much hope for anyone else.
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    Post by Sinaid 2011-05-06, 01:48

    LOL, you guys are awesome which makes this game so much fun to play. I really do like how we can talk about this and sometimes disagree without being mean or ugly with each other. Like I said, you guys are awesome.

    My son? He's a quiet guy in the game and pretty much keeps to himself. He also doesn't play nearly as much as I do. I'm a mom at home on extended medical leave from work, so I have more time to play Minecraft than he does.




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    Post by FillerB 2011-05-06, 01:50

    Bluh bluh. It's kinda weird knowing who's mom also plays on the server. I see the jokes coming. "Hey Player X! Guess who I PvPed last night!? YOUR MOM WHAHAHAHAHAHAHA". "X: Stop hitting me bit that stick already Player Y. Y: That's not what your mom said OLOLOLOLOL"

    edit: And yeah I know what you mean. The original Brabants accent really does do wonders after hearing the German version. Rana, thats a bad dub.


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    Post by Sinaid 2011-05-06, 01:51

    BTW, even though my game name doesn't match my forum name, may I have some green letters for Sinaid? Very Happy
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    Post by Albuca 2011-05-06, 01:51

    Spoiler:
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    Post by Sinaid 2011-05-06, 01:53

    LOL Albuca. Who's wrong?
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    Post by PureCraft 2011-05-06, 01:53

    haha, a mom begging for promotion? Oh well.. I could manage something...
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    Post by Sinaid 2011-05-06, 01:56

    LOL,begging for a promotion? Nah. I'm already a member. I just like the green letters. Wink
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    Post by Albuca 2011-05-06, 01:59

    Sinaid wrote:LOL Albuca. Who's wrong?

    At this point does it really matter?
    I mean at this point...

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    Post by FillerB 2011-05-06, 02:03

    Yeah pretty much. So offensive jokes time?
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    Post by SlaveofRH 2011-05-06, 03:21

    Yarwood wrote:There is one dutch word I'll straight off ban for - I'm sure you know which I mean

    Also "bollocks and shag" I have no problem with as it isn't offensive.

    You have noooo idea how bad I wanna know what that word is. o__o
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    Post by Lizardman 2011-05-06, 03:28

    SlaveofRH wrote:
    Yarwood wrote:There is one dutch word I'll straight off ban for - I'm sure you know which I mean

    Also "bollocks and shag" I have no problem with as it isn't offensive.

    You have noooo idea how bad I wanna know what that word is. o__o

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    Post by FillerB 2011-05-06, 03:30

    Let's say that it can be accurately translated as "blatant homosexual male who I hope dies a gruesome death due to cancer". Yes, we have a word for that.

    And you know what else.... it is rather common.
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    Foul Language Empty Re: Foul Language

    Post by Rulyon 2011-05-06, 03:48

    Albuca wrote:
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    XKCD! Albuca, you just went from "cool" to "wicked awesome unbelievably cool X 1000". I love that comic.

    Also,
    @Slave, I did not intend to offend you. I am sorry to have bothered you with what I said, but I'm glad to see you have risen above your experience and don't let it rule you like many victims of rape do. I certainly do not intend to imply your experience is inconsequential or to be dismissed as "nothing", but allow me to clarify my intended message.

    It is MUCH easier, at least for myself and I'm fairly certain for many if not most others, to forgive that which was done to myself than it is to forgive someone for what they did to someone I care about.

    When I was a junior in highschool I got a phone call telling me one of my close friends had been beaten raped by her stepfather. When I first saw her in the hospital she was comatose. She had four broken ribs, a broken nose, and a dislocated shoulder. Both eyes were swollen shut and she had bruises all over her body. She had been raped so viciously that her vaginal bleeding didn't stop for three days. She was in a coma for five weeks, and the first thing she did when she woke up was start screaming hysterically, begging him to stop and leave her alone. Once the nurse was able to calm her down, she clung to her and cried herself to sleep. I felt immense grief for her experiencing that, furious her step father for doing this, furious at God for it happening, and completely helps to do anything to comfort her.

    Whenever someone says "rape" or some variation of it this memory comes back and haunts me again. I feel those emotions again. This is NOT what I want to think of or experience at any time, much less when I'm trying to enjoy some time on the server. Anyone who uses it gets a polite request to stop and a stern warning that repercussions will come if they don't. Further use of that word in presence and I WILL issue them a temporary ban.


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